Today is Side Chick Appreciation day. This is the day when the memes come out hard. I heard someone say that we should be nice to a side chick and this is my response to that, hell naw I won’t. I know that came a bit left but that is my real life rated G version of my response. Why should anyone feel sorry for a side chick. Often times side chicks can be side blinded. The men who side line a side chick really are a piece of work. This means that not only do you not respect your wife or girl but you don’t respect the one you messing with to come correct and at best tell them they are a side chick.
Issue with Side Chicks
Now the issue with the side chick first let me deal with the man first than I will bring this thing back to full circle. You have NO game. Its sad but the reality is that some side chicks will play their “part.” Yes you can find a raggedy woman who is patiently waiting on the sidelines for any love before she turns up with no love. This I will address when I swing almost literally to the side chick herself. If you as a man really had it like that you could tell that side chick that she’s a side chick and she may go for the okie doke.
Lies and Side Chick Behavior
Often times that side chick is lied to just as much as the lie the man is keeping with his committed girlfriend and wife. Um let me just say you don’t have enough dick or money to entertain one woman let alone more than one. Straight like that, no chasers today. I am not coming from a bitter been burnt by side chick games either but the truth is the truth. So while you may get away with the game of hurting the one you are with you will find out sometimes when it’s too late that it’s not worth it.
Cheating Spouses
The chances of your woman taking you back is slim or at least it should be. Ladies I know some men go to counseling and attempt to do better but you better be 1000% sure you can handle that. The amount of distrust that is done after someone cheats is unimaginable. If you are the type that brings that back up a million times, you would be better off leaving that cheating man and sending him a clear message that this type of behavior is not acceptable with you than to stay and drag yourself and him through it. If one of you should go through the ringer shouldn’t it be the one who committed the offense?
Now to the actual side chick or side dude especially the ones who know. Why? Like legitimately why? There isn’t another man who isn’t already connected? This one that appears like a good catch is the one? What makes him or her a good catch? Cheating is a turn on? He or she won’t do that to you right? Like for real, what is your motivation. You are dipping yourself sometimes literally in the same pot. That doesn’t seem sexy to me. So the nights like Valentine’s Day when a man or woman can’t make a viable excuse for not being home, what do you do?
Side Chick Reality
Hold your pillow tight? Look at your gifts he had to send to you because he’s not there loving you. Let me guess, you think he’s not with his wife or her husband? I know that’s what they told you. How come he or she hasn’t left their wife or husband? Your stuff not bomb enough to make him roll? Oh yeah the kids, yeah that’s called an excuse. No one should ever stay for the kids.
Listen if being second to the main is good for you, than you will never have much. No one cares about your place. You have none. Once that wife and husband finds out trust me they are going to make your side boo’s life hell. Once that happens the spark you once saw won’t be as strong as you think. They the wife and husband and your boo will blame you. This isn’t anything new that you haven’t heard its just time out for being the sloppy second to another woman or man’s main. Let people figure their relationships out without being the one sliding in between them.
So not I don’t feel sorry for a side piece today. You get what you put out.
