Welcome to the one of the first blogs. I want to introduce myself. My name is LaToi and I go by Toi. I currently live in Philadelphia with my family that includes my husband and my 3 children. In today’s blog I want to talk about starting something new. We all have desires to do new things but may hesitate because you are scared.
Why should you be willing to start new things?
Life is short. We know that. With that short life it is up to us to step out of the comfort zone and make things happen. For instance with this blog there is no way of knowing where this will lead. However this has been a passion project that is a whole year late. Think about that? I wanted to start a blog a full year ago but told myself I wasn’t enough of a good writer to do it. So I sat on this blog for a year. A whole year of making a dream of mine come true. It wouldn’t have even cost me money. However fear never makes sense.
New Start in all Areas
I am currently starting new in all things. New job and more. However one of the things that new starts is a way to start fresh. This means I get to wipe clean every slate that I have. When was the last time you did a reset? We are all very deserving. Deserving of creating and stepping into your dream deferred. For instance if at the end of the year you are looking to travel-do it. What are you waiting for? Sometimes our biggest wait doesn’t mean that it makes sense. Do it. Travel. Quit and do a new career. Start a family. Get married. Divorce-the options are endless.
Fear can’t stop the dream
Your dreams don’t die. They want to take a front seat but you keep allowing fear to be the driver. Sometimes in life if we step out and are afraid, the fear will drop. It’s when we allow fear to be the dictator and the dream sits in the back seat that we don’t thrive. What about your life is being controlled by fear? IF you can answer this but haven’t out in faith you will never what it is like to push forward. I am currently writing this blog on a cell phone. I don’t even own a laptop and yet not allowing my fear of not having the “right” equipment to stop me. Having equipment to do is more important than the kind as I start this.
New Year its way
Yes as we end November that means we are closer to finishing the year than when it started. Everyone will be hopping on the new me, new year bandwagon. You can jump on it but you need a solid plan. What is your plan of attack? Will you move past fear? How about start without stopping? Is it doing something new although the world and your situation is telling you that you should wait it out?
The new year is the perfect time to go forward. Ask for help. Get some resources by researching what you need. Ask those in the field that you want to go in what they did to start. Looking for new love, ask yourself are you what you want to attract? Can’t ask for someone in the gym and you yourself dont go into the gym. Want to travel more but don’t own a passport? Get one. Seek to be employed by someone else? Did you submit your resume? Let’s make moves for upward mobility.
