My man is broke. Not the type of broke where he doesn’t have money but the type of broke where I can’t depend on him to do anything for me. He doesn’t have any interest in making things right with me after he makes promises….
Well one I’m sorry you’re having this issue. But your man isn’t broke he just isn’t the one for you. Having him have money is great but if that money can’t offer you any type of emotional support then what is the point in continuing a relationship?
You have to know where you want this relationship to go. Relationships are supposed to be give and take and to be honest it doesn’t sound as if this one is. You want to be able have a relationship that feeds you, encourages, and allows growth. If you’re questioning it then you must have doubts. You can talk about it with your man. Some men need to be guided but overall he should have a plan of direction. If you and him aren’t on the same page, and can’t get on the same page then you wont continue to work out anyway.
This isn’t meaning you should just give up. Only you know if its worth the fight. You also have to take into consideration length of the relationship as some new relationships don’t start off as established. So if you’re expecting understanding and its only been a few months then maybe you need to have realistic goals on YOUR stage of the relationship. Lastly the one killer of relationships is comparing it to others around you. There is a speed that works for you and him, find it and make it work.
Promises being broken is an issue. If its early what you accept is what you get if you don’t speak up. If you don’t and you stay then you are allowing him to break his word. A mans word is his bond period. Dont negotiate it.
Good Luck out there!!
