Working is a beautiful thing outside of the home. There comes a time though if you have small kids where working at home is almost inevitable. The cost in daycare alone is enough to stay home.
You say it will save money and it definitely will. I have 2 small kids in daycare and the amount I spend in daycare could get me a nice apartment.
I was a SAHM (Stay at home mom) and it was hard work. People have misconceptions on what that looks like. I was the first one up prepping breakfast and cleaning what I didn’t the night before. By the time 9am had come I had done more than some hsd done all day. Trying to figure in time to do lessons with the kids, laundry, and meals my whole day was in an organized uproar. Any mother worth her grain in salt will tell you that being at home isn’t a glam job by far.
Here are a few tips to help you:
Get involved outside of the home
When you are at the park and meet other moms – network. You never know who they know. You could also just network to have another mom that is experiencing the same issues
Play dates
Play dates are a mom’s excuse to have organized adult interaction. Don’t underestimate the power of cookies and adult tea time.
Mommy time
You’re on a budget but you don’t have to cut all things fun. Make sure you go out once a month with no kids and enjoy an activity that is exclusive to you alone.
Time management
Being a stay at home mom would appear time is always on your side but that’s not the case. Time seems to slip fast when you are attempting to get glue out of a toddlers hair and make lunch at the same time.
Be creative
Kids get cabin fever. There are a number or activities in your city in the daytime that you can take the kids that are cheap. Look on websites for your city or get connected with your local library or even Barnes and Nobles.
Your husband is attempting to see the big picture. If you staying home will help and you can wrap your mind around it I would encourage you to do it. It’s a lot of work but the pay is knowing you are providing your kids with mommy and me time that is priceless. Be clear to set goals while you are home too. I would also make a calendar of events for you and the kids. Kids love structure and they will love looking forward to paint Fridays.
Be clear with your husband on how spending money will happen. Just cause you aren’t bringing in money doesn’t mean you aren’t contributing. The money you are saving is just as important as the money coming in.
Good luck and enjoy this time!
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